無意之中知道男友跟別的女生在網路上調情

ivyxiaoxiao

請各位大大給點意見吧
本人在去年的時候無意之中在網路上發現了男友瞞著我跟別的女生調情的事
因為男友在交往的時候為了讓我安心所以他的MSN上只有我一個人..
而我卻發現他有另一個新的MSN而且里面沒有我,還發現了很多他跟女生調情的聊天紀錄
然後我就跟他吵架了...
可他死活不承認那些事是他做的...
然後我他分手了..半年後他又雒新找我了...
當然還是不承認那件事,,而且是刻意不談那件事..他想重新跟我在一起..
各位大大...我到底該怎麼做呀...
因為我在乎的不是他騙了我..而是他面對謊言不承認的態度呀

[ 本帖最後由 ivyxiaoxiao 於 2007-7-23 20:37 編輯 ]

bigciz

男女雙方最珍貴的莫過於對彼此的坦誠
所以如果你還對他抱有希望
應該請他誠實以對 爾後保證不在犯
如果他仍不配合
那 天涯何處無芳草呢

小丑魚幫主

妳自己決定比較重要吧!

你明知道是這樣的結果 你還想要繼續嗎?

還是要等到下一次他在做一樣的事情呢?

彼此坦白...應該比較重要吧!

ivyxiaoxiao

想了很久也覺得是
能有這麼一次就意味著還有下一次了
既然他沒心要改
就算想要再回頭我也不要理他了

D-HERO

我是覺得男女朋友之間
最重要的就是信任、溝通、坦白
要是對你都不能坦白的話
那如果你真的又跟他復合了
但是他又再犯的話
怎麼辦呢??
所以我覺得.......
再找下一個吧!!!

hwnimi

Seems he doesnt want to tell u the truth, if i were you I will not give him any of changes 2 ppl together have to be honest to each other n shouldnt do something like this. Even they have their right to do it still have to be honest to each other. Otherwise how can you keep the relationship? You have to ask yourself you love him or not. If you still love him want to back together than you have know that he will or maybe have next time again.
Can you accpect that again? Otherwise why not find another one find someone who can honest to you.
I wish you the best!
Hey the world still moving sky still pretty. cher up.
^_^ sorry my english is not that good spelling is not that great.....
Keep going gf.

ivyxiaoxiao

personally,i had asked myself several times before,and i know that i really wanna be with him but only the guy who are honest on me.
so i finally made the decision...
haha...life still going on...nothing gonna change...i just pretend that he  never exist!!!
thx all u guys!!!

hwnimi

原帖由 ivyxiaoxiao 於 2007-8-2 19:14 發表
personally,i had asked myself several times before,and i know that i really wanna be with him but only the guy who are honest on me.
so i finally made the decision...
haha...life still going on ...

^__^ good job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! gf. You made it.
I wish ALL THE BEST TO YOU..............................

brianbear

其實小弟覺得有點不明白~~
如果妳的男朋友真的想跟妳復合，那我想他應該會承認而且以低調的態度跟妳求好~~
可是他卻一直不承認~~
我想或許真的有可能有點誤會~~
如果妳仍喜歡他，我想或許妳們可以好好的談一談~
如果已經沒感覺了，我想那可以結束這段感情了~~
別讓誤會誤了彼此的幸福~

ivyxiaoxiao

thx man
finally...i made it...it was hard for me actually!!
but everything gonna be alright
isn't it ?

ivyxiaoxiao

其實事情很明顯...
沒有誤會..只是他想我不要想起以前的事
當做一切都沒有發生..
他不承認整件事..也當作沒有整件事..
然後說一直很想要再和我在一起..就這樣

bigciz

建議你細心觀察男友最近的舉動 是否如你期望
如果真心悔改 你也願意原諒她 就算了吧 不要追究

ivyxiaoxiao

原帖由 bigciz 於 2007-8-7 13:37 發表
建議你細心觀察男友最近的舉動 是否如你期望
如果真心悔改 你也願意原諒她 就算了吧 不要追究

其實他連承認都不願意...也沒什麼真心不真心悔改了吧..

ybhw72

其實我覺得不要在一起比較好................，因為他有前科，加上半年後才想在回頭..........
感覺上不是粉好。如果妳還喜歡他，就再試一次吧..............